Elder Care Mediation Conference Call Family Therapy (phone) hide this posting unhide

QR Code Link to This Post OK, not sure where to put this ad, but my family needs a third party, someone with a good heart, balanced perspective, intelligent, and preferrably in some way experienced although, just tell me what you would bring to the table. I am willing to pay, however I didn't want to go through a professional mediator only to be disappointed. I respect your time. My price range is ideally $50 for the first session (20 mins, on the phone, payed immediately after - venmo or paypal etc. your choice) and if we determine more sessions may be needed, I could definitely pay more based on performance. Here is the jist:

-My dad, 71 had a TBI last spring and was forced into retirement and in need of constant care, he has (1 month ago) been released back home after being in various specialized care places for several months. He lives in New Jersey.
-My brother has moved across the country, with his girlfriend (obviously a huge sacrifice for them both, however there is little spite over that) because he is the only one strong enough to help my dad with his daily tasks.
-My mother has undiagnosed mental issues due to childhood trauma which result in an inability to tackle the complex issues such as finances (they have to sell the house, etc.) She cannot rationally discuss issues and make ground with anything. But she has all of the information and really clings to being in control. She is a hoarder in that she has all these little piles and stumbling blocks of junk in an otherwise beautiful home that gets in the way of caring for my dad.
-My mother also has a tendency to get very emotional, yelling and screaming which is inappropriate for my father to continue to endure.
-My brother is thinking he needs to legally be in control of my father's care and finances. Or at the very least, she needs an outside mediator (who I will convince her to respect) to force her to be more forthcoming with information and in following through on the many things that need to be done to get our situation in order. In the first session we would try to get her to also commit to routinely checking in with either you or another third party soas to agree to continually be held accountable.
-We want this to be as civil as possible. I, her daughter, will be coming home on 12/20 and want to get her to at least agree that we are in need of an outside mediator. This really needs to be done over the phone.

There is no specific date this needs to be done, I understand you may be busy during the holidays.

Thank You




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